Copilul, cel mai preţios dar
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2017 a fost cel mai generos an pentru 39 de copii abandonaţi, aflaţi pe lista copiilor cu profil greu adoptabili. După schimbarea legii adopţiei, iunie 2004, numărul copiilor adoptaţi naţional a scăzut de la 1422 în 2004 la 313 în 2016. Şi mai grav, de la 251 copii adoptaţi în 2004, numai doi copii au fost adoptaţi internaţional, apoi, zero adopţii internaţionale în anii 2006…. 2012 şi doar cinci în anul 2016. În schimb, a crescut numărul copiilor abandonaţi, de la 44.000 în 2004, la 70.000 în 2010. Atunci am lansat campania ”Vrem o Românie fără orfani” ! Am reuşit împreună cu alte ONG -uri să modificăm de trei ori această lege, respectiv, articolele care au îngreunat adopţia naţională timp de 12 ani şi au făcut imposibilă adopţia internaţională. Este greu, este imposiobil de înţeles, motivul pentru care Guvernele Tăriceanu, Boc şi Ponta au respins ideea redeschiderii adopţiei internaţionale. Zeci de mii de copii au fost condamnaţi la o viaţă fără familie, fiind hărţuiţi prin centre de plasament sau spitale, în loc să fie daţi în adopţie internaţională. Din cauza stării de sănătate, a vârstei şi a etniei copiii abandonaţi de ieri şi de azi sunt adulţi asistaţi social, cei mai mulţi marginalizaţi, în risc de excluziune socială. Am luptat ani de zile cu autorităţile centrale şi greu, foarte greu am reuşit să îndreptăm greşelile celor care decid destinele orfanilor români. Începând din 2016 am reuşit să schimbăm mentalităţi şi atitudini în rândul familiilor care vor să adopte un copil şi iată, împreună dăruim copiilor un cămin, o familie, un viitor în siguranţă. Schimbăm destine şi mentalităţi care se aflau pe lista copiilor cu profil greu adoptabili. Ne-a adus zâmbete şi multă bucurie!
Azota Popescu, Founder and Director of Asociatia Catharsis, has worked tirelessly over the last twenty years to provide day-respite services to the blind and visually impaired and to advocate for better services for the disabled people in her community. She has also worked tirelessly to advocate for the rights of Romania’s 60,000 abandoned, institutionalised children. In line with the governments recent policy changes to domestic adoptions and their campaign; ” A Family For Every Child” , which aims to have no children living in institutions in Romania by 2020, Asociatia Catharsis are now are Registered Adoption Agency and, in accordance with government legislation, are able to provide the following essential services.
Catharsis Association Brasov, Romania and private body public interest
Reautorizată is to carry out activities and services in the field of domestic adoption as follows:
Activities for families who want to adopt a baby:
– informing families / individuals expressing their intention to adopt, documentation required to, and the domestic adoption procedures;
– preparing for adopters informed parental role;
– information and counseling adopters on the necessary legal steps disclosure, under the law, natural identity baby’s parents and, where appropriate, necessary contact or biological relatives by child;
– family or adoptatorului assessment in order to obtain adoptatoare attestation / family person to adopt one or more children.
Activities for children who have been or will be adopted:
Specialist Nurse for that child has not been able to identify a suitable adoptatoare family, where the adoption of the child adoption failed or stopped;
– drawing material information addressed to children on procedures, and the effects of adoption;
– Adoptatului and preparation advice for achieving its contacts with parents and / or natural biological relatives;
Natural activities for parents and extended family of children who have been or will be adopted:
– insurance expert assistance the adoption termination;
– advising and training natural parents and / or biological relatives for achieving contacts with adopted.
Adoption: post activities
– information and advice for parents and children;
– organising courses for parental capacity development;
– formation of groups for parents and children;
– supporting adopters to inform the child about adoption;
– advice on revealing adoptatului parents identity / natural biological relatives;
– advice and preparation adoptatului / parents / natural biological relatives to contact.
Adoption services internal
– information and promote domestic adoption awareness in order to / beneficiaries and needs increased domestic adoption by organising meetings, conferences, communications, media campaigns, editing of publications.
This article, which I wrote for the ”Adoption Today” magazine appeared in their July 2016 issue. I can highly recommend the magazine as a resource for anyone whose life has been touched by adoption in some way and for prospective adoptive parents.
Professor Victor Groza, with over twenty-five years promoting best practices in child welfare in Romania and adoption research, kindly provided the following links and comment regarding adoptees searching for birth parents. I hope that you find this, as well as other informative posts by Professor Groza helpful.
The U.S Department of Health and Human Services; Child Welfare Information Gateway has many excellent articles of a generic nature, including this one; ” Searching For Birth Parents”.
Professor Victor Groza-
”There should be professional services in place to prepare adoptees and birth parents for a search, to support them during the process, and to help them after a search is completed–whether or not it is successful. Our practice model in the US is that search is a normal part of development for some adoptees. Females tend to want to search more than males and not all adoptees search. For those who do, there needs to be extensive support. That includes letting them know that in the eyes of their poor families, they are seen as wealthy. The birth family may feel entitled to the adoptee and for the adoptee to support them, even if they abandoned her or him. That is why search should not be undertaken lightly. Here is the link to the Adoption Network-Cleveland’s website about search (http://www.adoptionnetwork.org/) ; they have a protocol they follow for search and reunion.”